When you're being misunderstood...

Do you sometimes get the feeling that you are misunderstood? Yes? No? Well...I do. Looking back on my teenage years I can say that I never really was understood, maybe one or two people were able to 'read' my actions, my thoughts, my words but looking at the bigger picture that is almost insignificant. On the other hand I always thought that I was easy to read and to understand. I guess I was wrong.

• Do you ever feel that you're saying one thing and people understand something else or even the opposite?

It happened to me lately...several times and it made me think about it...what makes people misunderstand our words/actions? Why do they tend to believe the worst about what we're saying/doing?

• Do you ever feel that people start doubting you even after many years of friendship/acquintance because they believe what they want to believe about you?

They think about what is worse and they don't even consider the background of your relationship anymore. They believe what they want because it's easier for them to see someone elses faults rather then their own. I guess they think it's easier that way...so wrong...some get offended when it's not even the case :(

• Do you ever feel that you are misunderstood because people don't try to reach your heart anymore?

I guess it's easy for them to judge what they see rather than looking for answers.

• Do you ever feel that people don't want to admit they're wrong when they misunderstand you, because they are afraid to do it?

They will never admit they were wrong. People have such big egos. Sometimes they just can't get over themselves...

• Do you ever feel that people blame you for being misunderstood?

Yes they often do that. They don't care what made them misunderstand you, you are to blame for it, they have no fault in this...Mhm...

• Do you ever feel that the people who surround you became so superficial that they prefer to leave you behind when they sense the slightest change of mood between you and them?

Been there, done that. What can I say, people move on to happier 'things' rather than trying to fix what's broken or trying to figure out the problem.

Movie: 'Dear John'

Yesterday I watched the movie 'Dear John' and I loved it.

How can I not like the movie when it's made after a book written by the same author who wrote 'The Notebook' - Nicholas Sparks.

Well that is maybe because I'm a sucker for romantic movies (be they comedies/dramas) but I also like the actors: Savannah (played by Amanda Seyfried - from 'Mean Girls' and 'Mamma Mia') and Tyree (played by Channing Tatum - from 'Step Up').

I won't write my own review this time but I will post the trailer and you can decide on your own if you want to watch it. Either way, I recommend this movie. :)

Channing Tatum, especially, makes a good impression, I really like his character's personality and the way he portrays it and let's be honest, he's looking hot. :)

From A to Z

Taken from my dear Diana :)

a – age: 20 :)

b – bed size: umm...normal...small...not sure :P

c – chore you hate: washing the dishes, cause I don't like getting my hands wet :))

d – dog’s name: I don't have a pet :(

e – essential start your day item: Coffee & food

f – favorite color: not necessarily my all time favourite but I could say - blue (and purple)

g – gold or silver or platinum: Silver

h – height: 1.75 cm

i – interesting fact about yourself: hmm...I sing :) I always wanted to become a singer

j – jewelry you wear every day: Rings

k – kids: not yet...

l – living arrangements: ...I want to move to Holland and live in a house (not in an apartment anymore)

m – mom’s name: Victoria (I loooove her name)

n – nickname: Ral, Ralux, Suri, Sister, Otilia :))) - in highschool, and Tye (Silvy knows :P)

o – overnight hospital stay other than birth: 1 week for investigations when I was 14 or something like that

p – pet peeve: people eating noisily/with their mouth open, people talking when I'm sleeping, stupidity

q – quote: "You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough."

r – right or left handed: Right

s – siblings: 1 AWESOME sister <3

t – time you wake up: 6-7 AM...

u – underwear: couldn't live without it

v – vegetable you dislike: onion

w – ways you run late: I am never late! (for school)...otherwise it happens only sometimes when I go out and I can't find what I need or I remember something I should've done in the last moment

x – x-rays you’ve had: spine, knees, pelvis

y – yummy food you make: Spaghetti Carbonara :)

z – zoo favorite: swans & bear cubs

A woman should...

"A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ....

enough money within her control to move out

and rent a place of her own even if she never wants

to or needs to...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ....

something perfect to wear if the employer or date of her

dreams wants to see her in an hour...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ...

a youth she's content to leave behind....

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ....

a past juicy enough that she's looking forward to

retelling it in her old age....

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE .....

a set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a black

lace bra...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ....

one friend who always makes her laugh... and one who

lets her cry...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ....

a good piece of furniture not previously owned by anyone

else in her family...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ....

eight matching plates, wine glasses with stems, and a

recipe for a meal that will make her guests feel honored...

A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE ....

a feeling of control over her destiny...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

how to fall in love without losing herself..

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

HOW TO QUIT A JOB,

BREAK UP WITH A LOVER,

AND CONFRONT A FRIEND WITHOUT RUINING THE FRIENDSHIP...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

when to try harder... and WHEN TO WALK AWAY...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

that she can't change the length of her calves,

the width of her hips, or the nature of her parents..

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

that her childhood may not have been perfect...but it's over...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

what she would and wouldn't do for love or more...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

how to live alone... even if she doesn't like it...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

whom she can trust,

whom she can't,

and why she shouldn't

take it personally...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

where to go...

be it to her best friend's kitchen table...

or a charming inn in the woods...

when her soul needs soothing...

EVERY WOMAN SHOULD KNOW...

what she can and can't accomplish in a day...

a month...and a year..."

— PAMELA REDMOND SATRAN

and here are some pictures of some memorable LADIES whom I really admire:

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